random thoughts of life
While your character is formed by your circumstances,
your desires can shape those circumstances.
The one thing over which you have absolute control
are your own thoughts.
Your success depends on the support of other people.
The only hurdle between you and what you want to be, is the support of others.
Put yourself in another's place, and you'll know why they think and do certain things. You can succeed fastest by helping others to succeed.
Always think in terms of what the other person wants.
You'll get everything in life that you want if you'll help enough other people get what they want. Doing things for others always pays dividends.
Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement, all success, all achievement in real life grows.
You're not an isolated island. You're a piece of the planet, a piece of the universe.
When you help someone's boat across a river, you'll find your own boat has reached the shore too.
giving a person everything you have
everything that you are
is that true love ?
"Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and owners pay just enough so that workers won't quit."
"Everyone wants to go to Heaven, but no one wants to die."
Most people dream of being rich, but are terrified of losing money. So they never get to Heaven.
The main reason that over 90 percent of the American public struggles financially is because they play not to lose. They don't play to win.
you build walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching.
Daniel Lee Barrett
If con is the opposite of pro, then lets just say I made a lot of congress today.
I hate the word expedite. It is just a politically correct way to say "hurry the fuck up". A polite way to make someone feel like they are not working fast enough. Now excuse me whilst I go "expedite" my work.
A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. A journey of two thousand miles usually begins with a step in the wrong direction.
"hospitality, loving acceptance, a quickness to serve, a tangible love for one another that makes people feel safe, and a patient tolerance of one another’s weaknesses would all be a great way to start"
- Nathanael Lim Yao Hui
the caring for each other
the pt
the common direction -> ff and .. ?
srt
bars
waltz
food
cooking ?!
traveling !
adventure
the fun
the memories
the trying to understand each other now
why am i suddenly asking for more ?
or
why do i feel that there is something lacking ?
i need sleep
it's not about fame and fortune
it's about believing and believing in yourself
and understanding that this life, is life
it's liberty and the pursuit of happiness
and happiness isn't about getting what you want all the time
...it's about loving what you have
apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right. it just means you value your relationship more than your ego.
no commitment to each other
be myself
improve myself
she knows that i love her
is that a bad thing ?
need to be less sticky
i need to get my careers in gear
duck first
mw/satellite later
: Doing what you like is freedom ; Liking what you do is happiness. 做你喜欢的事 是自由；喜欢你做的事 是幸福。
Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God? – Epicurus
i'm letting her know who i am
the reason why i do things
haven't give her a good answer for the .. unconditional love though
is it possible ?
love
takes 2
hands to
1 one sided
letting her know that you care
..
is
good enough ?
love
love
love
i know i care for you
"Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. "
and i know that you care for me
us
me
who we are
our individual character
myself
"Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. "
不怕爱错, 只怕没有爱过
drawing the line
now she knows
i care for her deeply
am i clingy ?
sustainability
rose
hairclip
flyer
sweet
cute
cuddly
adorable
oh my gawd, the tea is hot
la la de
shuang
bond
we need something to sustain
helps
-----
srt
bars
mediation
next time
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dance
knowledgable
knowledge
strengths
my strengths
damn
previous post so landmark
that i dun feel like posting anything above it
but
haha
is fatigue really an excuse ?
i have not been getting to insurance agents
my prudential is one mother son of a gun
116th post
being nice
is it easy to be nice ?
it takes strength
strength in character
3 elements
savage body
civilised mindset
uncompromising will
> start
3.48am
what does being nice to my father mean ?
damn i feel pressure to type more
being nice to her
wo ai ni
xie xie ni
does it take alot for a guy to say that ?
>end
love
cute cuddly
am i really in love ?
can't say for sure now
does time really prove everything
must time be the factor ?
3 months
i'm not good enough, that's why time is also a factor
be myself
ok
let time prove it
i am thinking
such "statements" are dangerous
especially in this blog
come on come on
grow up
falling apart when she's not around ?
CANNOT
but
being myself
i'll make mistakes
i will learn
but will be it too late ?
she
seems
forgiving
is working hard enough ?
WILL I EVEN WORK HARD ?
8 months
to be continued,
edited
like.fuck
"Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness"
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/loveanddating/a/isitlove1.htm
teenadvice ?
damn , it sounds like damn good advice to me ?
am i still a teen ?
Sometimes, when you’re in love, it’s okay to be stupid and risk it all. ‘Cause the feeling of not trying hurts a lot, right? The every day frustration, the what-if’s and could-be’s… It’ll knock at the back of your mind and annoy you in every opportunity it could find. It would put you all over the place, turn you into someone but your whole self. But sometimes you also think that it’s not only about being stupid, and it’s not only because it hurts that you’re doing it. You know you’re not being completely illogical, because you know that that’s just how love is supposed to be.
— Eternus Incienda
MINDBLOWING THOUGHT PROCESS!!!
A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:
Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?
I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here. I'm 25 this year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married?
I wanted to ask:
what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York CityGarden(?), $250k annual income is not enough.
I'm here humbly to ask a few questions:
1.Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)
2.Which age group should I target?
3.Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking? I've met a few girls who doesn't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.
4.How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? My target now is to get married)
Ms. Pretty
Awesome reply:
Dear Ms. Pretty,
I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours.
Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here.
From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty" and "money": Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.
However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worried 10 years later. By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position". If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased".
Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.
Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in "leasing" services, do contact me...
signed,
J.P. Morgan
